Play 2

The most intimate & transformative way to work with me!

Limited to 12 people

extraordinary relationships & eros

Pre-requisite: Play 1 is an initiation that prepares you for this deeper work!

6 months: July 18, 2026 - Jan 10, 2027

You desire

  • Erotic passion, pleasure, & peak spiritual expansion through sex…your body wants to be fully lived in!

  • Extraordinary secure attachments. You can rely on them, they can rely on you.

  • To interrupt cycles of co-dependence, self abandonment, or poor partner selection… to alchemize your lineage.

  • To be part of a loving village where you are not alone around the most tender & the most ecstatic parts.

You are ready to

  • Do the work on a whole new level to change your life

  • Let go of relationships you have been tolerating (perhaps to avoid feeling lonely)

  • Grow & be with discomfort as you enter the unfamiliar

  • Rewire your attachment system for more presence, emotional wisdom & pleasure

  • Co-create steady secure attachment that can support erotic sovereignty & polyamory

You may also

  • Seek gender alignment & euphoria (whether that’s affirming your essence or transforming into a new identity)

  • Want to unleash bold artistic expressions with more risk, truth, & raw sensuality

  • Long for support from your ancestors, culture(s), & to feel the larger magical story you are part of

Warning: this deep work often catalyzes new careers & private practices!

Benefits:

  1. Learn the next level of basics (9 chakras) to increase your embodied energy awareness

  2. Deepen your practice of shifting from pattern to presence, with more ease & more consistency

  3. Expand your body’s capacity to feel, organize, metabolize & exchange more energy (including grief, eros & desires)

  4. Clarify your vision for your relationships & erotic life within these 6 months (play for a bigger vision with more support)

  5. Bring your vision to life with community & 1:1 support (monthly private coaching with Z!)

  6. Observe the emotions & eros your parents did not know how to affirm. Reparent your inner child to reclaim your full expression & power.

  7. Learn where shame lives in the fascia of your body & how to melt it to receive more pleasure & aliveness.

  8. Practice the art of giving & receiving pleasurable touch.

  9. Release grief around your sexual & attachment journey in a community Grief Eros Ritual.

  10. Expand your pleasure capacity by receiving what you desire from the whole village.

  11. Research & embody the dances & eros of your pre-colonial cultural roots. Call in your ancestors to support you.

  12. Amplify the power of your erotic play through Kink Divination, working with the energetic & spiritual realms.

This is bigger than us

This is a call to be part of reparenting America, one brave heart at a time.

This is a collective maturing. Extraordinary relationships & eros are necessary to successfully defy the caste system. This is a liberation movement that uplifts queer, trans, poly, kinky, black, brown, & indigenous bodies. We also uplift the dignity of all people (including white male bodies) actively challenging the caste system.

Our time together includes

We meet every week for 6 months to focus on your extraordinary relationships & eros.

  1. 1:1 laser coaching (monthly online)

  2. Group coaching & embodiment practices (every other Tuesday, 5 - 7 pm online)

  3. In person deep dives (one weekend/month for 7 weekends)

  4. Access to Community Presence Practice (Fridays, 11 am - 12 pm online)

  5. Homework

  6. Access to in-person sessions for an additional cost, only offered to Play 2 students

Weekends in person

  1. July 18 - 19 (1 - 7 pm)

  2. Aug 15 - 16 (1 - 7 pm)

  3. Sept 12 - 13 (1 - 7 pm)

  4. Oct 10 (12:45 - 9 pm) Grief Eros Ritual (open to community)

    Oct 11 (1 - 7 pm)

  5. Nov 7 - 8 (1 - 7 pm)

  6. Dec 5 - 6 (1 - 7 pm)

  7. Jan 9 - 10 (1 - 7 pm) (invite loved ones to a grad party Jan 9)

Facilitation team

🏳️‍🌈 Z (aka Zahava Griss, lead facilitator, they/them) visionary embodiment & secure attachment teacher, extraordinary relationship coach, dancer. Z has delighted in guiding erotic community ritual for 27 years. You may read their full bio here.

🏳️‍🌈 E. Lowry (assistant, they/them) trauma informed kink explorer & guide for 10+ years.

All photos of Z & E by Elly Bernstein @fourcubes.photography